The Wealthy Really Are Better Than You

Better than you. Better-looking, too, if you're Henry Waxman.

Sooner or later, every website with a passing interest in personal finance posts some version of “The X Habits of Wealthy People”. You know how these lists are going to end before they start. Yeah, rich folks spend less than they earn and don’t drive ostentatious cars. Great, what else you got?

First, that’s not even true. Just because Warren Buffett inexplicably lives in a 53-year old house doesn’t mean that Larry Ellison or Paul Allen does. Despite what you’ve been told, frugality is only a tiny part of this. (But frugality is also the easiest personal finance subtopic to write about, which is why right now some idiot personal finance blogger is crafting a post on how you can save .1¢ per wipe if you buy toilet paper by the ton.)

A note on frugality: when I was 14, my best friend’s father was a successful eyeglass salesman. Regional sales manager, or something. Knowing I’d be entering the workforce soon, and wondering what I’d have to do to beat out the other applicants for that first coveted busboy position, I asked him what he looked for when hiring. His answer?

“Big spenders. I want a guy who orders the lobster and the most expensive bottle of wine, who wears Harry Rosen suits and drives a BMW.”

Why?

“Because he’ll be motivated. He’s got bills to pay and a lifestyle to maintain, so he has to make his quotas whether he wants to or not.”

There are plenty of people who spend less than they earn and who drive Ford Tauri. The vast majority of them aren’t rich.

If you’re not rich, and see no prospects of ever becoming rich, it’s not because you aren’t working hard enough. This should be obvious. Even if you cut out early every afternoon and only work 35 hours a week, how many hours a week do you think the world’s hardest-working rich person is putting in? 350? 35,000? No, clearly the relationship between hours put in and rewards achieved is not a direct one. Or at least not a linear one.
Here’s what rich people do that really does distinguish them from ordinary folk. These are easy to adopt, and don’t even require you to sacrifice that much in the short term, if at all. You just need to think differently.

1. They understand leverage. And its offspring, passive income. There’s an entire generation of financially responsible but unimaginative people who blame the Great Depression for their failure to lead dynamic lives, and who took the mantra “neither a borrower nor a lender be” as Scripture. (It’s actually Shakespeare. Hamlet.) Fortunately, those people are dying off.

Spend money to make money. And borrow it, too. You borrow money to leverage your existing assets. You don’t borrow money to finance a vacation. A 6% commercial bank loan to purchase an office building, whose offices you then lease out to tenants, who make rent payments to you that a) you use to cover your mortgage payments and b) write off your taxes, while you keep the difference, is money well borrowed. An unimaginative frugal person who doesn’t know any better sees that original bank loan as a sleeping tiger. A rich person sees it as the first step to a sustained cash flow.

2. Rich people aren’t “being lived”. As opposed to living. No wealthy person beseeches anyone for a raise. Or does the prep work, explaining his worth to the company and why he’s entitled to more. Being rich starts with the self-determination, as counterintuitive and pollyanaish as that sounds.

The thing is, you probably know this instinctively. Who’s more likely to get rich:

a) The college-educated junior account coordinator who stays late and delivers her sales reports to the boss a day early, hoping to get noticed to the point where she can become an account executive one day and do more of the same, or
b) The immigrant with a shaky command of English who borrows from his cousin to open a falafel stand?

The first couple of years, their incomes might not differ by much. The immigrant might even work longer hours. But his success is contingent on him, and no one else. So is his failure, if any. No one can promote him, but no one can fire him. The point isn’t that all immigrant food vendors get rich. The point is that by living self-determined lives, they’re in a better position to create wealth than the junior account coordinator who’s waiting for the person above her to transfer/get fired/have a baby.

If a rich person wants more money, he creates it. By soliciting another client. By creating and promoting another product. By using another passive income stream. Not by hoping to catch the boss during one of his rare generous moods.

3. They care about output, not input. See our prior post about this.

It doesn’t matter how many hours you worked, it matter how many widgets you created. In fact, it doesn’t even matter how many widgets you created, it matters how much revenue they brought in. And even that is less important than how much profit they generated. (And if you don’t understand the difference between revenue and profit, buy the freaking book already.)

Or take the office building example from above. Once you get enough good tenants in there to fill it, the money starts flowing in with marginal effort. If Tim Cook flies to Helsinki for a ski trip next week instead of going to work, a few thousand iPads are still going to be sold. But the employee who relies on income for sustenance has to apply himself for every dollar. Which brings us to:

4. Wealth ≠ income. Not even close. There’s a reason why the ultra-rich usually keep quiet when Congress discusses raising tax rates on high-income people. Because confiscating more and more of a hard-working person’s income has little bearing on a rich person’s ability to build wealth. Capital gains, IRA proceeds, investment appreciation…whatever its name, money that they don’t directly work for is what separates the rich from the never-will-be.

5. Dust yourself off. Even if you don’t pick up as many clients as you like, or go half a day without having to open the register, a wealthy-person-in-training has a permanent internal motivator; memories of how badly life sucked taking orders at the old job.

6. (Of course) Buy assets, sell liabilities. Put $150 a month in an IRA, or put it in cigarettes by the carton?

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Carnival of Financial Planning – Edition #181

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Timothy and Mr. Fixins get a little testy when their Carnival of Financial Planning isn't served up just right

It’s carnival time at Control Your Cash, yet again. This week’s is the Carnival of Financial Planning, courtesy of the thorough and endlessly professional Larry Russell at The Skilled Investor. He’s the one who slaved over this meal in a steamy kitchen (after selecting all the ingredients), then arranged it on the plate; all we’re doing is serving it.

Anyhow, the Carnival of Financial Planning is different than most carnivals in that it takes a long-term view of personal financial planning. As Larry puts it, “we focus on efficient and sustainable personal financial planning practices that can lead to lifetime financial security.”

And he even organized it! “This edition is arranged by subject heading, so that you can browse efficiently.” So let’s get started, shall we?

Budgeting and Economics

Craig Ford presents Groupon and Living Social Get a Yellow Light posted at Money Help For Christians, saying, “With all the hype about Groupon you need to know that there is a potential downside.” Not as big as the downside of Groupon CEO Andrew Mason turning down $6 billion from Google, but shocking enough.

Matthew Paulson presents Get Your Financial House in Order with These Five Personal Finance Audio Books posted at Audiobooktopia. (Note: Did you know that the Amazon Kindle does text-to-speech, essentially making every book an audiobook? The Amazon guy’s voice sounds like Joe Buck on lithium, but it works.)

Estate Planning

My Journey presents What is Portability in Estate Planning? posted at My Journey to Millions. He explains: “There were a lot of tax law changes (as well as a lot of things that were kept the exact same) when President Obama signed into law the Unemployment Insurance Reauthorization and Job Creation of Act of 2011, but there was one change that simply put, shocked me. It was the brand new idea that your Credit Shelter Amount was Portable.”

Financial Planning

Tarik Alsharafi presents Be wealthy today – by cutting your paycheck in half.. posted at Success starts today, saying, “To be wealthy every day of your life, you need to have some savings aside. It is simply not easy to go day to day without any money saved. Even $100 is enough to start with. Don’t have even that? Start with $1. You don’t have to be financially free to feel wealthy, you need to have a sound financial system in place to be wealthy. Learn to save money, invest it, and reinvest it starting this month.” Fortunately for Tarik, sensible habits count more than punctuation and spelling do.

Mike Piper has done it once more. The 6000th consecutive thought-provoking post at The Oblivious Investor is How Social Security Benefits Are Calculated. Mike says, “given that Social Security makes up a significant portion of retirement income for most US retirees, it’s worth knowing how your benefits are calculated.”

Frank Knight presents Portfolio Asset Allocation at Best Personal Financial Planning Software, saying, “When you are already there and invested in an asset class, you are following a passive asset allocation strategy. Tactical asset allocation strategy advocates suggest that you can anticipate the crowd, but flow-of-funds studies show that almost all tactical asset allocation fund flows are late money flows that chase performance after valuations have already moved.” It gets snappier, trust us.

Financing a Home

Jim Yih presents Time to pay down your mortgages at Retire Happy Blog. While we try to wrap our heads around the exceedingly complex organisms that are Canadian mortgages (“closed vs. open term”? “6 month/7 year”? And what’s a RHOSP, anyway?), Jim explains that “with the recent boom in Canadian real estate prices you can pretty much guarantee everyone is carrying more mortgage debt than ever.”

Financing Education

Outlaw presents How to Pay for College at Outlaw Finance, offering, as you might imagine, “tips for reducing the cost of education and planning for the remaining expenses.”

If paying even a nickel is still too demanding, Chetan presents How to Pay for College with No Money at College Distance Degree. Chetan colorfully tells us that “If you or your family is already struggling to make ends meet in this economy, trying to find a way to pay for college may be a daunting task.”

Kyle Berks presents Qualifying for Personal Loans after Bankruptcy Discharge at Integrated Loans, saying, “It is not easy to pick up all the pieces after a bankruptcy as well as qualifying for a personal loan, but despite the fact that it may not be easy, it is definitely not out of the question.” (Note: this post also featured in the Carnival of Curious Syntax)

Investing

A dividend husband, dividend wife, and their teenage dividend son and daughter walk into a talent agent’s office. They say, “We’ve got an act that’ll blow your mind.” Hussein Sumar presents S&P 500 Dividend Aristocrats of 2011 at Best Dividend Stocks, saying, “The S&P 500 Dividend Aristocrats Index is the most honorable list of dividend paying stocks as measured by the S&P 500 Index that have consistently increased their dividends for the past 25 years, without missing a single dividend payment.” We trust you’ll find the list honorable too.

Jessica presents TIPS: Treasury Inflation Protected Securities at MomVesting. She acronymically puns, “people love to give financial tips, but taking them can be risky. There are, however a different kind of TIPS that can have a place in many portfolios.”

Your “host guest” at The Skilled Investor presents Market Timing posted at Personal Investment Management, wisely stating that you should “Always stay invested to earn risk premiums. You must have your money invested and at risk to get risk premium returns. Jumping out and in or ‘timing the markets’ doesn’t work.”

Walter Bruening of Great Falls, Montana died this week at 114.
True story: the local newspaper would interview him annually once he got to like 103 or something. One year the reporter asked, “What’s your earliest memory?” His response:
“When I was 5, I got my first real haircut. My father took me to the barbershop, and I remember it because everyone was talking about the shocking news: the assassination of President…
McKinley.”

False story: Mr. Bruening won a structured settlement last month.
He didn’t, but if he had that’d be the ultimate in deferred gratification. That being said, Dividends4Life presents 8 Dividend Stocks For The Ultimate In Deferred Gratification at Dividend Growth Stocks, saying, “Deferred gratification is a principle where one or more people choose to postpone near-term benefits in order to enhance their chances of greater benefits in the future. In our microwave society marked by the ‘I want it now’ attitude, it is unusual to find someone willing to wait.” So now you know what deferred gratification is.

Frank Vertin presents Top Index Funds at Index Mutual Funds, where he showcases “(the) top ten no load index funds that track the Standard and Poors 500 composite index in terms of lowest costs.”

FMF presents Being an Active Investor is a Lot of Work at Free Money Finance, saying, “Do you really have enough time to be a successful active investor? It takes much more time (and effort) than many people can (and will) dedicate to it.”

Managing Credit and Debt

At our favorite blog named after a soybean oil spread, Jeff Weber presents April 2011 Balance Transfer Credit Card Report at Smart Balance Transfers, saying, “In April, credit card companies offered average 0% introductory rates on balance transfers lasting more than 12 months, marking the first time this average has eclipsed the one year mark since inception and a good oportunity for consumers to save money.”

N.W. Journey presents the cryptically titled How to Order a Free Copy of Your Credit Report at Networth Journey, calling it “An easy to understand article on how to get your credit score.”

Jeri Ford presents Newbie FAQs About Credit Card Churning and Sign Up Bonuses at Help Me Travel Cheap. According to Ms. Ford, if you’ve “got questions about credit card churning? I’ve got answers.”

ComplexSearch presents What Is A Good Credit Score To Buy A House at Deals & Tips, saying, “Seeking out a good mortgage can be a complicated process, especially these days when lenders are much more stringent with their lending requirements than they once were. Learn what makes lenders say yes…”

Khaleef @ KNS Financial presents Back To Basics: Learn How To Save at Faithful With A Few. Khaleef points out that “How to save money is something that just about everyone wants to discover. However, we often bypass the simple in search of the complicated. Let’s get back to basics”

Tim Chen presents NerdWallet’s Best College Student Credit Cards, Spring 2011 Edition at NerdWallet Blog – Credit Card Watch, saying, “Rewards, 0% APR introductory periods and no annual fees are not solely the province of adult credit cards.”

Boomer talks sense. (And by “talks sense” we mean, “says something we’ve been hammering here at Control Your Cash for years.” He presents Why You Shouldn’t Care About Credit Card Interest Rates at Boomer & Echo, saying, “If you don’t carry a balance on your credit card, why should you care about the interest rate?”

Miscellaneous

“Dude, can I borrow like $200? I saw this bitchin’ set of speakers. I’ll totally pay you back with my next check.” Ever heard a variation on that? Then read Joe Plemon. He presents Your Friends and Your Finances: For Better or For Worse? at Personal Finance By The Book, saying, “How do your friends affect your finances? How do you influence them? This post will challenge you to consider what friendship is all about.”

If Yngwie J. Malmsteen needs an identifying middle initial, then we can also indulge Walter W. Fouse, who presents Large Cap Funds at Best Mutual Fund. Walter W. says, “This table of low cost top 10 S&P 500 mutual funds has been organized with the lowest cost index fund first. Nevertheless, each of these S & P 500 index funds is among the least costly on the market.”

BIFS (and all this time we’ve been calling her “BITFS”) presents The Jung Typology Test – Personality Test Results | Budgeting In the Fun Stuff at Budgeting In the Fun Stuff. She says, “One important key to properly planning ahead is understanding yourself and your abilities. When you know yourself and how you will behave, you can plan around that and it will be much easier and more effective when you follow through.” As for planning after, you’re on you’re own.

Anjum presents Non-Profit Management Programs: MA vs MPA vs MBA » Masters in Nonprofit Management at Masters in Non-profit Management. He helpfully explains that “The non-profit sector includes charities, conservations groups, religious organizations, zoos, and more. Managing non-profit organizations is very different from managing a typical business, so there are specific graduate school programs available to those interested in working in leadership positions in this field. If you’re interested in a master’s degree in non-profit management, you have three main options: an MA, an MPA, or an MBA.”

Pasadena Financial Planner presents Vanguard Funds at Top Mutual Funds, saying, “Compares Vanguard’s actively managed mutual funds and Vanguard’s passively managed index mutual funds. Vanguard investors should read and understand this study.”

Retirement Planning

RJ Weiss presents Choosing Between a Traditional versus Roth IRA at Gen Y Wealth, saying, “The purpose of this post is to compare the two types of IRAs for individual investors. In addition, offer guidelines for making the optimal choice.”

retirebyforty presents Roth IRA at retireby40.org, saying, “Roth IRA is a great investment vehicle. April 18th is the last day to file the 2010 tax return and you can still contribute to the 2010 Roth IRA if you haven’t already done so.” So set your clock back 96 hours and check it out.

It’s an FMF doubleshot! Two for Tuesday on a Friday! He presents Retiring Overseas at Free Money Finance, saying, “Ever thought of retiring overseas? Turns out many people have (and it’s becoming more common.) This post gives some thoughts on how to make this idea a reality.”

Jim Wilkerson presents No Load Mutual Funds at Best No Load Funds, saying, “Very young stock and bond mutual funds are more likely to put you into the position of being an experimental guinea pig of mutual fund companies and the ETF industry.”

Tom presents What First? Pay Off Student Loans or Save For Retirement? at StupidCents. While we’re pretty sure we know the answer, Tom says “getting your feet wet in the real world seems to be consistent on every graduates radar. So what first? Paying off student loans or saving for retirement?”

Jareth presents Retirement Calculator at Retirement  Software. In his trademark easy prose he writes, “Retirement investment calculator software automatically acts as a comprehensive compound investment calculator that applies historical investment return growth rates to your cash, bond, and stock assets.”

If there’s a more important question that this, we don’t know what it is. (Possible runner-up candidates include “What’s the meaning of life?” and “Why do NFL teams punt on 4th and short at midfield?”) Pinyo presents How Much Money Do I Need to Retire? at Moolanomy. According to Pinyo, “this article takes you through three easy steps to help you calculate how much you need to save for retirement.”

Savings

He’s Matt, bad, and dangerous to know. And we love him Mattly. Matt Bell presents Why Two Savings Accounts Are Better Than One at Matt About Money. To quote Matt, “Interested in dialing down your financial stress and making your finances run more smoothly? Open and maintain two savings accounts. Here are the two types of savings accounts everyone should have.” Don’t get Matt, get even.

Taxes

He can do for your taxes what Frank Jobe did for his ulnar collateral ligament. Tommy John presents Last Minute Tax Tips For Those Filing 2010 Taxes at 2010Taxes, saying, “These tips can make last minute tax filing a lot easier.”

Finally, Financial Freedom presents IRA Contributions at Retirement Worksheet. Read it and weep: “The Roth tax optimization puzzle for asset conversions, as well as for annual Roth contributions during working years, is one of the most complex decisions that the ridiculously complex US taxation and retirement planning system forces upon individuals.”

That concludes this edition. Submit your article to the next edition of Carnival of Financial Planning using the carnival submission form. You can find past posts and upcoming hosts on the blog carnival index page.

Yakezie Carnival

When in doubt, a puppy licking a kitten is our favored default image

Without further ado, and with great fanfare (alright, maybe there’s slightly more ado), Control Your Cash is proud to host the Yakezie Carnival for the first time. Apparently Yakezie management saw what we’ve done with previous carnivals yet wasn’t thwarted. Thanks to the esteemed Sam at Yakezie for letting us host, and again, these are actual submissions from actual Yakezie members:

Julie Mayfield at The Family CEO Blog recently discovered Groupon (you know, the folks who were offered $6 billion for their startup and let the opportunity slip away) – only Julie found an inventive way to take even greater advantage of Groupon’s extraordinary deals.

Speaking of deals, Glen Craig at Parenting Family Money introduces us to something called Amazon Mom. If you’ve managed to successfully lie on your back and reproduce – or are caring for the loinfruit of someone who has – Amazon has found a way for you to buy diapers, wipes, and other disgusting items without even thinking about it.

Jacob A. Irwin at My Personal Finance Journey laments something that we here at Control Your Cash can certainly get behind – people who have no concept of taking responsibility for their own actions. But hey, if you don’t read it, it’s probably someone else’s fault.

Now here’s a comment we can sink our teeth into – Don at Money Reasons explains how paying off your mortgage is like getting income from a second job. A second job that doesn’t require you to kiss up to a boss, stay late or come in on weekends.

We’re not even close to done. Last week’s host, Dr. Dean at The Millionaire Nurse Blog, reminds us that if you think your government has an interest in you saving and spending wisely and conservatively, well, you’re living in the wrong country.

Looking to drive 85 miles or so at a stretch, never carry any cargo, and only be able to access your vehicle at certain times? If you’re tired of the always-on convenience of a gasoline-powered internal combustion engine and the ability to travel long distances, check out the best hybrid vehicles at Sustainable Personal Finance. They come complete with government incentives, because state-of-the-art products traditionally have trouble making it in the marketplace without artificial market stimulation.

Crystal at Budgeting In the Fun Stuff has tax tips for big savings this week. Have you found all your deductions and credits? No? Then read and reread this post.

Familiar with silver pairs trading? How about gold pairs? Dan P at ETF Base has a comprehensive, well-researched post that isn’t for the neophyte, but could pay handsome dividends to those willing to take the time.

Penny Saver at The Saved Quarter claims you can buy gift cards for less than face value. Really? Really. See her detailed explanation here.

If you don’t regularly read Len Penzo, you’re missing something. Actually, you’re missing lots. This week the indefatigable Mr. Penzo pours water on the ridiculous practice of paying attention to which gas stations in your area charge the least. Because when the neighborhood station charges $3.459 a gallon and the one across town charges $3.429, you’d need to have a 1,000-gallon tank or so to save enough for the cheaper station to be worth your while.

If you’re 19 years old and reading this, TIME IS RUNNING OUT. Seriously. David Mateer at Money in the 20s reminds you that it’s never too early to start investing – and as his blog’s title indicates, your 20s are as good a time as any. What you’re lacking in earning power at that age, you’re more than making up for by being able to exploit the magic of compound interest.

Then, once you’ve earned enough money from your investments, you can spend $495 of it for the privilege of spending your own money with the VISA black card. Free From Broke points out the costs and benefits of using VISA’s answer to the American Express Centurion card. If you really, really like eating peanuts in airport lounges, the black card might be for you.

Another company that takes a cut for doing absolutely nothing of value is Coinstar. Justin Weinger at Money Is The Root used to gladly pay Coinstar’s 9.8% “convenience” fee, then got religion. Folks, and by folks we mean ladies, instead of letting your coin collection grow to the point where it can’t fit in a Sparkletts 5-gallon bottle, use those coins for their intended purpose.

Kay Lynn Akers at Bucksome Boomer was minding her own business one day when her friends started getting poorly spelled solicitations for money from “her”. Yes, she got hacked. Find out how to avoid that unpleasantness with some handy tips (also, don’t use “123456” for a password. Criminals are craftier than you think.)

Penultimately, Krant Cents reminds you that retirement probably isn’t going to take care of itself. Run the numbers now instead of living under a bridge later.

And last but not least, here’s one of our own, now on its 3rd recycle, reminding you that relying on charts to invest in the stock market is a sucker’s game.

Next week, Jason at Live Real Now hosts the carnival. Thanks again for coming.